The greatest challenge for most people is to figure out how to develop lasting confidence. What exactly is lasting confidence? Well, it means that you’re confident when you’re succeeding in life, and you’re also confident when you’re failing. You’re confident when life isn’t going very well, or when you’re being…
Often, people don’t try to achieve Big Goals because to do so seems daunting. For example, making a career change can seem like a Herculean task. Losing 50 pounds can seem impossible. Even organizing one’s home may seem like an insurmountable endeavor. But realize that all your personal goals are…
For many of us, setting boundaries with other people is difficult. Being able to set boundaries almost seems to many folks like a “super power.” That’s because most of us want to be pleasant. And helpful. So, setting boundaries with others and firmly saying “No” feels uncomfortable! When we say…
The point of life is to leave a positive footprint on the world. The idea is that when you die, the world will be somewhat better because you existed. And the only way to leave that kind of positive footprint is to make being “good” a daily habit. Realize that…
Over the years, I’ve known many people who were frustrated by life. Now, none of those people had objectively bad lives. They had nice careers. They lived in lovely homes and had pleasant friends and families. So, their circumstances weren’t the cause of their frustration. Rather, their frustration stemmed from…